Should Have Lied

Let's have some tasty lattes while I vent. Have you ever done something and regretted it like as soon as it happened? I'm sure you have. All I'm doing right now is sighing and shaking my head at those recollections of wasted time on certain individuals. I get it. Things happen for a reason and people walk in and out of a person's life a hundred times over. The point that I'm taking too long to make is that there is an inner voice that we like to ignore sometimes. The voice that lets us know to proceed with caution and to not entertain a thought that will lead to negative repercussions.

It's no secret that dating is not for the faint of heart nor that it burns a person out quicker than a sheet of paper...I really wanted to say a pack of Kools but I really don't know if that's true. Anyway, I digress. There was a situation that happened which brings me here to today. I guess this is sharing time. I'll keep this story short and try not to get carried away where we would need another post…Maybe.

I went to a favorite budget friendly store to purchase a lint brush but also came out purchasing a mixing bowl. Don't ask. I'm not the only one that goes to the store for one item and come out with several. In this case, it was only one additional item. Ha ha. Just to paint a picture of my mindset, I had washed my hair and put them in two-strand twists to let them air dry. My outfit consisted of a pair of tight yoga pants, a large t-shirt, and flip flops. With a touch of eyeliner and mascara, I was good to go. I was on the loving myself the way that I am vibe.

While in line, an older guy said that my hair was beautiful. This was pleasing to me because I was out in these streets looking simple but felt cute. With a smile, I thanked him and told him that "I know". If anyone went through the journey of getting to know your hair like I did, you understand. I learned to love my hair. Even though 'till this day we have a getting on my nerves relationship, we love each other. When I said "I know", I was saying that I acknowledge that my hair is beautiful and it’s a part of me. Getting back to the story...after I responded, just as smoothly he asked "Can I take you to dinner?"

Now, I was speechless. Nowadays, dating is happening more and more on apps. You would be lucky if a phone call even lead to a date. I didn't know what to say because lets be honest, I don't get asked that question everyday. He didn't wait for me to respond but instead pulled his cell phone out and asked me for my phone number. Since we were inside of the store and I didn't want anyone in my business, I told him that I would meet him outside after checkout. We soon exchanged phone numbers and began to briefly text afterwards. Although we had spoken on the phone a couple of times, the best way to interact with someone is always face to face in a comfortable environment. That way, you can see their facial expressions and read body language. When he sent me a message that he wanted to see me, I quickly obliged and suggested Starbucks. It was a neutral and public place where conversation could be had. Unfortunately, this guy didn't see it that way and told me, "Sorry, I don't do Starbucks...that's not my style of meeting places."

There was disappointment at first because it was a familiar place and it was in close proximity to both of us. The other coffee shop that I wanted to try was still under construction.

Anyway, I would love to continue with the story but don't want to put you to sleep with my venting. Please be on the look out for the next part of this story. XOXO